August1998 net worth by Lance Arthur |
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Lance: In Search of Self
Editor's Note: Smug felt that in order to maintain the status quo, and to fulfill the court order
to write about Personal Journaling on the web, a topic we've avoided for the last 20 months, we'd look
to one of the web's leading personal diarists for some insight. In the spirit of the genre, Lance was interviewed by... himself.
Lance conducted the interview alone, both as the interviewer and the interviewee.
What follows is the conversation he had with himself. You can read it below or for the full experience,
we suggest you hear it for yourself, by clicking one of the Real Audio links below.
"So, you write about..."
"Myself."
"And..."
"And other people also writing about themselves."
"And..."
"And about me."
"And..."
"And I visit their sites looking for references to me writing about
myself and them and them writing about what they think of me writing
about myself and them."
"When you write about yourself and people write about you writing about
yourself and you write about people writing about you writing them about
writing about yourself, do you ever find yourself writing about them
writing about you writing about them writing about yourself?"
"Sometimes."
"Oh. Do you mind if I get personal for a moment?"
"Of course not."
"When you're involved in a relationship with someone who isn't writing
about themselves or about you or about you writing about them or both of
you, do they ever feel like they can't get very involved and open up to
you because they're afraid you'll write about them feeling that they
can't talk to you because you'll write about what they're talking about
to you and then write that?"
"I already wrote about that on my site."
"Oh. Um. So. Okay."
"I also wrote about writing about it, and how I felt about them feeling
that I shouldn't write about it, and how I didn't write about it, and
how they..."
"I think we're done with that. Have you ever written something you
regretted?"
"I once wrote about feeling that I couldn't write about feeling that I
couldn't write what I wanted to write and how I felt about that. Looking
back, I wish I'd written about what I was feeling about feeling that I
couldn't write about feeling that instead of feeling I couldn't write
about those feelings."
"And how do you feel now?"
"I've since written about that, about how I felt having felt those
feelings when I felt them and how those feelings made me feel then, when
I wrote that. So I've moved on."
"It's been said that online journal writing is little more than an
exercise in community voyeurism, that the writers involved are only
concerned with themselves and each other rather than any larger issues."
"I think someone I know journalled about that."
"You're aware that 'journal' is not a verb. One cannot 'journal'."
"I don't like to get caught up in labels."
"How do you respond to that assessment?"
"Well, the whole thing about verbs and nouns and spelling and grammar,
it all gets in the way of the truth. When I'm journalling, I don't blue
the cognizant landscape with inchoate troddings that no one considerates
to. Editing is fascist."
"I was referring to the comment about navel-gazing."
"I once wrote about another journaller writing about me writing about
this issue and I basically wrote that writing online is a lot like
baking a cake."
"How so?"
"What?"
"How is that metaphor accurate?"
"Meta what?"
"You compared writing an online journal to baking a cake?"
"Is that Meta?"
"In terms of it being a discipline concerned with a casting a critical
eye on its parent designate, no. Cake has almost nothing to do with
online writ...."
"Like Entertainment Tonight!"
"Sort of but not really."
"My friend writes about that!"
"I'd like to get back to..."
"We almost decided to have an Mary Hart Web Ring, but it was just the
two of us so instead we started a threaded discussion space on his pages
and now we can go there and write about threaded discussions and how
difficult they are to maintain and how we feel about those difficulties
and threaded discussions and how that relates to our feelings about
discussing threaded discussions in threaded discussions."
"But nothing about cake."
"Why do you keep harping on cake? What does that have to do with me?"
"One final question; Do you foresee a day when you'll no longer have
interest in keeping an online journal?"
"You mean, will I ever grow tired of journalling?"
"If you prefer."
"Journalling is something I have to do. When I get up in the morning, I
have to write about my dreams, and brushing my teeth, and how I feel
about that, and sometimes I have dreams of brushing my teeth. I've made
a lot of great friendships via my journal. I know everything about them
and they know everything about me and I'm exploring the me of me through
writing about me and them. And they know more about themselves and me
and us because we write about that. Plus, you know what's really true?
Sometimes people say I don't have a life because I spend so much time
maintaining my journal. But if I didn't have a life, I wouldn't have
anything to write about, would I? Huh? They never think of that, do
they?"
"Thank you."
"I can't wait to write about this."
back to the junk drawer
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